Dr. Daley on Sex and Relationships

Graduated cubicle

sex and relationship advice from Dr. Daley I just graduated college, and lately I’ve been feeling like my whole world is coming apart. My job sucks, money is an issue, and I feel like the people I once considered my best friends aren’t who I thought they were…

In love and war

sex and relationships advice from Dr. Daley My boyfriend of one year is leaving for Iraq. Both of us want to stay together, but some friends and family members seem to be dropping subtle hints that we should we put the relationship on hold while he’s away…

Should I PhDump her?

My girlfriend and I met while we were seniors in college. I’m in my first year of a PhD program while she’s working full time in a different state, and I feel like her expectation is that we will get married after I graduate…

A vestal interest

I’m getting into my mid-20s and am still technically a virgin. I’m not saving myself for marriage, but I wanted something meaningful, and that’s just not come along yet. I’ve had chances but haven’t taken them because it never seemed right…

Strap this on for size

I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years. We’re both 25, and things are great. We get along, fight rarely, and generally have a good time together. The only thing that I think both of us realize is that sex is starting to get boring…

Queer as mud

I have a serious problem. I’ve always had trouble picking boyfriends. Every single guy I date winds up eventually coming out. It’s to the point where I’m starting to get a reputation with my friends. Is there even a way to tell if I guy I date is gay?

Long-distance tolls

I’m a 23-year-old guy who has only been in two serious relationships, both of which were long distance. In the most recent one, the girl dumped me the day I moved back home to be with her…

He’s a real slow-poke

slow-poke I always finish before my boyfriend does. He complains that he can tell that I’ve given up, and the truth is, I have. I’m trying not to be selfish, but sometimes I just want to roll over and go to sleep. What should I do?