Dr. Daley on Sex and Relationships

My false dilemma

What is your opinion of pornography as a tool to help maintain a focused, monogamous relationship? Or is pornography itself a form of cheating?

Looking the gift horse in the mouth

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Is it all my fault that their relationship ended? Am I a home wrecker? If he left a house and eight years for me, what would it take for him to want to move on and leave me later?

Sensing change

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I’m getting married next month and don’t want my relationship to change…

Not a fan of his surprise attacks

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I’ll just get to the point, Dr. Daley: My boyfriend is too fast for me…

Bedtime woes

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I just can’t get in the mood to sleep with him anymore….

Have we scarred our little girl for life?

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What do you say to a seven-year-old who saw Mommy and Daddy doing it….

Her mommie dearest is making things awkward

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She says “Mom!” right at the height of it all, kind of in this breathy voice. It’s pretty disturbing….

Me and my old lady

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I recently started dating an older woman. I think she’s amazing, smart, and sexy, but my friends have given me unmitigated grief about it….

Is he a perv in naked sheep’s clothing?

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I’m a 21-year-old woman and I sort of have an issue with my new boyfriend…

Is she just another sandbag?

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At my worst, I had about 300 partners during the course of a year. Since then, I’ve gotten therapy, joined a support group, and found a great girlfriend…

So confused

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I’m a 26-year-old woman, and I’ve only had one serious relationship that ended about a year ago. Ever since then, I can’t commit to anyone…

Newly divorced, very scary

Dr. Daley | Sex and relationship advice

I’m a 21-year-old guy, and I just went through a divorce. Should I wait a while to tell girls I date that I’ve already been married? I don’t want to scare women away before they even give me a chance.

He can’t get it up for Groucho

Dr. Daley | That Other Paper

I’ve been seeing this awesome girl for a few weeks now, and things are going great. The only problem is that she has a lot of facial hair.

She’s got a girl problem

That Other Paper | Dr. Daley

I’ve stayed good friends with quite a few of my ex-boyfriends. There have been some problems for me when they have new girlfriends, though. They always seem to be jealous of me…

A three-way my way

That Other Paper | sex and relationships I’m a 22-year-old girl. My boyfriend’s 24. We’re both straight, but we’re both curious about group sex. I agreed to have a threesome with another woman if we could later have a threesome with another guy…

What’s eating him

That Other Paper | sex and relationships I’m a 26-year-old guy who’s been dating a really, realllllly skinny girl for a few months now. I was initially attracted to everything about her, but now the skinny thing is starting to gross me out. How do I ask her to gain a little weight?

He won’t share the joystick

That Other Paper | sex and relationships I moved in with my boyfriend about two months ago. The first six weeks were incredible – we were the best friends/couple we’ve been for years. And then he got into some video game. I’m pretty sure he hasn’t gotten up from his computer since.

This is going to cost him

sex and relationship advice from Dr. Daley I’m a 28-year-old guy, and I’ve had the same problem for years. All the girls I’ve dated have had pretty mainstream sexual preferences. But what I really like are…

Flattery got him somewhere

sex and relationship advice from Dr. Daley I’m dating someone because he flattered me – I really like the nice things he says to me, but I don’t find him attractive at all. Every time we’ve made out, I’ve gotten really sick the day after…

Cruisin’ for a bruisin’

sex and relationship advice from Dr. Daley I’m a 22-year-old single gal and a recent college grad. I’m cute, and I have a supportive upper-class family and world-class friends. But I’m having trouble reconciling my sexual interests with the rest of my life…